Do I satisfy my lovers?

This is a question that I have recently become aware of. Actually Mr. Vanilla said that I must satisfy my lovers very well from reading my blog. And in return I said that I have only had one complaint. The funny thing is that the person who complained, I didn't think so highly of either. So maybe it was a compatiblity thing.

Anyway, I think for the most part that I am more than adequete in bed. Of course it can be difficult to tell at times. Some people could be just being polite. I know I have been. They could be faking. Although that is difficult for a man to do. So what constitutes being 'GOOD" ? Of course that all depends on who you are having sex with at the time. The only problem with asking this question here is that the only person who could give me any feedback is a man I haven't slept with in 7 years. He knows about this blog, but I have no idea if he reads it much if at all. Plus that would only be one person's opinion. It isn't like I could take a poll. ( I wish I could)

There are ways to tell if somone is having a good time with you. But since several of the people I have been with were one night stands, I never spoke with them again. But then again a few of the people that were supposed to be one night stands ended up being long term relationships, including my husband.

Maybe we should cum up with a list of things that could help all of us determine if the sex we have had was "GOOD". Besides of course a man ejaculating. There is moaning, arching the back, kissing with passion, grabbing, spanking, screaming( with delight), having sex for a second or third time, and so on.

So bring be your questions and answers. And if they are good I will either post them again or make sure that the comments are right after the post.